It seems so obvious that without the feminine, there is no masculine. As simply stated as - without Up there can be no Down.
One needn't climb the heights of spiritualism to figure this one out, nor cruise for a while in the clouds - though that sounds like a wonderful idea.
It's basic biology. Man + Woman = Man + Woman, on and on.
Imagine if the first man who chronicled the bible and its origin stories - broke his stylus and went off to find a new one and his wife - having several because that's the kind of person she was - took over writing that story and her old man used it. What would be the current narrative?
Mankind includes the feminine - how could it not! But Man, he's a little too full of himself and constantly sees himself in the first position. Even when he's last in line, he simply turns around and thinks he's leading the way - in the other direction.
I've always been keen on herbs and would put several together to help the family. I think what you do is awesome. Keep it up.