Love, real love, transcends time. Which makes it seem like time has no influence on love at all. Thus is it "naturally" patient."
For the most part, I think this is true. My love for a certain number of people in my life is very patient. But no love is impervious to pain or disappointment. Shit happens as the ancient philosophers used to state -- in various language. And sometimes it impacts love.
What do we do when it happens? Be patient, I would think. Don't let the hurt erode what we feel. It's tough, takes guts, but in the end, it's worth it. 😊👍